The Low Profile Bed Search


I’ve been searching for a low profile bed frame since we moved here, and it’s gotten to the point where I just have to find something and take the plunge. I haven’t found anything I’m 100% sold on, probably because my dream bed is a tremendous 4 poster Shaker style bed, and our bedroom ceilings slope.

The considerations:
1. Under 43″ headboard, or easily modifiable headboard. Ish. It’s not like the plaster is straight.
2. Steel or solid wood. Preferably made in the USA. Nothing upholstered or cane, a.k.a. a giant scratching post. No engineered wood.
3. Preferably white, as we already have a lot of wood action going on.
4. Slats or a platform, so we don’t need a box spring. Finished sides (no bedskirt needed.)
5. Really, really sturdy. I have a fear of beds collapsing on cats.
6. Nothing too modern.


The contenders:
1. Room & Board Bennett Bed. We could paint it white.
2. Garnet Hill Windsor Bed. Would have to modify the headboard. Not convinced on the construction, even though it’s solid wood. Finial attachment area / visible screws would need fixing.
3. Room & Board Webster Bed. Too industrial, but it’s sturdy, made in the USA, and the right height.

And that is literally all I could find that wasn’t too modern, engineered wood, or tall. HELP.

In Praise of Being Basic


While I was in California, enough people asked me why I hadn’t Instagrammed any cocktails yet that I began to wonder if I come across as an alcoholic on Instagram. “No, you’re just…predictable.” Holly told me at lunch. “You mean basic.” I replied. I’ve come to realize I’m kind of okay with that.

Sure, there are loads of things considered ‘basic’ that are pretty icky. Coffee drinks from Starbucks probably shouldn’t be considered actual coffee. UGGs should be banned from fashion. No one over the age of 21 should be ordering a Cosmo at a bar.

But couldn’t we all use a reminder to appreciate and derive joy from tiny, attainable things? There are enough unreachable, aspirational images online that taking the joy out of the easy-to-reach stuff is not ok.

There are plenty of things I’ve seen called ‘basic’  that I find pretty dang pleasing. A short list:

  • Coffee art. It looks delicious and is evocative of cozy, slow mornings. You know when I don’t have time to see the top of my coffee? When it’s in a tiny paper cup with a lid and I’m rushing to work, which is basically all the time.
  • Doors. Since when is appreciating architecture and design a bad thing?
  • Flowers, especially peonies and roses. They grow freely in my backyard and smell good.
  • That Hozier song (ok, Sean was the one complaining about this being basic). He’s Irish and the lyrics compare love to sacrificing things to pagan goddesses. Excellent. I don’t even care.
  • Macarons (and I think le merveilleux are right behind macarons in the soon-to-be-overly-trendy-camp). They’re both gluten-free, look like cakes and cookies for fairies, and make any day better. Seriously, you’re going to judge pastry?
  • Brunch. See Coffee art.
  • White Converse. If they were good enough for your grandfather to play basketball in, they’re good enough for you to take pictures of your feet on the beach in.


Get It Together: Agenda Tips & Tricks


I finally ordered my 2015 agenda. After much deliberation, I ended up buying the same one I had last year. I was very tempted by this one, and eventually I’ll just find a Filofax style refillable. I’m really picky about the week layout, and couldn’t find a refillable I liked this year. I just can’t kick paper – lists or notes in my phone never get looked at again.

Determined to get organized, I sat down and set this one up to be my one stop information book.


1. Tape or staple paint chip cards for all your house colors, with notes on where the paint is used, or what you’d like to match / coordinate to it.

2. Ditto fabrics if you know you need to match them.

3.  Take measurements of things you know you need. For example, I’m looking for a bed frame with a height of less than 43″, a smaller sized screen door, and tablecloths for my extremely long dining table. I never remember all those measurements, so I wrote them all down on one page.

4. Keep an ongoing list of things you’re looking for in thrift or antique stores. China patterns, silverware patterns, lamps or light fixtures, etc. Sometimes I get to a store and totally space on what I’ve been keeping an eye out for.



1. Between Facebook, Google calendar, and emailing my mother-in-law, I tracked down everyone’s birthdays and wrote them in. I did not write them in the birthday list at the back of this agenda, but on the actual days. I am seriously TERRIBLE at birthdays. I hope this will help.

2. I love this agenda because it has one side for the days in that week, for appointments or “must-dos” and then an open to-do list page on the other side. It helps me to sit down on Sunday and list all the things I need to do that week.

3. I wrote down some goals, resolutions, and POWER PHILOSOPHIES, so I can flip to them if I need a grounding check in.

4. I don’t use this planner for work at all (unless I’m speaking at a conference / traveling and need to put details in) – my work calendar is wayyyy too convoluted. This is personal life only.

5. If you’re not one to schedule regular massages / retreat times or make time for yourself, go through the year and randomly put “make spa appointment” on the to-do list side.

6. If you’re on a health issue hamster wheel, like me, consider making a “health” section to track appointment results, make notes, and track money spent for tax purposes.

7. I don’t keep business cards. If I need to know someone for business purposes, I follow them on LinkedIn. If it’s for personal / doctor / car repair, etc, I just add them as contacts in my phone.

8. I also don’t put bills due in here, because that’s all set up on auto-pay already. I’m a big fan of automating anything that can be automated.

How else do you use your planner / agenda? I’d especially love to hear more house renovation tracking tips!

Also! We recently moved the secretary desk into the living room – it’s much brighter / warmer / more social to work from here than in the spare room, and I’m definitely using it more. Willoughby likes it too. I need a big fern to go next to that globe!



Winter Skin Care Routine


Here in Vermont, winter is all about itchy skin and crazy, crazy dry hands, feet, and cheeks. It starts around late October and by January I just want to move into a spa and spend my days in a full body paraffin wrap. Well. Sadly I must go to work, so this is how I get through winter with daily spa-esque times.


1. Dry brush before you hop in the shower. Also good for your immune & lymph system. I’m a doctor.

2. In the bath or shower, a salt scrub with a good oil in it. I like Jane Gee’s Rose Geranium, and The Body Deli’s Honey Date scrub. For shaving, I’ve been stealing Sean’s Naturopathica Soothing Shave Cream. If I try to shave my legs with soap, I end up in a world of pain and with scaly legs. Good times.

3. While still damp, moisturize up. I’ve been using this Shevanti body balm from In Fiore that Jen sent me, which basically smells like you’re preparing yourself for ancient sacrifice. I also love Huile et Baumes Gentle Dry Oil for the Body.

4. Sometimes you just have to go get a manicure / pedicure with a paraffin wrap. I tried to do the heavy moisturizer + socks thing the other day and it did nothing.

5. Keep hand cream at your desk. I use Aesop’s Resurrection Aromatique Hand Balm. Weleda’s Skin Food is pretty great too, and cheaper.



Because I live in the middle of nowhere, I tend to shop for makeup and skincare on Sephora. Between racking up samples and points, turning 39 and feeling like I should up my skincare game, and Jen sending me a lot of these fancy things, I’ve been trying a lot of different products lately.

I took the photo below (it’s hard to take a selfie with a real camera) because I felt silly talking about skincare without being like “Hi, I have skin.” Ok then. I have skin. And strabismus. I feel like I look like a middle-aged mom here.


1. Alternate a clearing / exfoliating cleanser with a moisturizing one. On the mornings when I use the Clarisonic with the delicate brush, I use either Apotheke Charcoal soap or Josie Maran cleansing oil, depending on level of dryness / oiliness. At night, I take off my eye makeup with this Caudalie cleaning water, and do either a hand or washcloth wash with the Aesop Fabulous Face Cleanser.

2. Face masks. My favorite. I love the Farmaesthetics Rosehip + Clay Mint Mask to draw out impurities, and the fresh Rose Face Mask does some kind of tingling witchcraft and leaves my skin super super soft and refreshed.


3. For moisturizer, I mostly stick with Caudalie Vinexpert Broad Spectrum SPF 15 Radiance Day Cream. On super dry days I use the Rodin oil, but that’s basically like rubbing (sorry, patting) gold into your face so I don’t use it that often. I also really like MD Solar Sciences Mineral Tinted Crème Broad Spectrum SPF 30 UVA-UVB Sunscreen, especially if I’ll be out skiing or doing winter sports. It makes my skin feel super velvet-y and matte.


3. Makeup is fairly simple, I’m using all of these in the photo above: bareMinerals BARESKIN in Bare Linen. Josie Maran gelee blush, Josie Maran Matchmaker Powder in Fair/Light, Josie Maran mascara. Uh, I didn’t really think about the fact that most of it is Josie Maran until now. It’s really hard to find decent natural makeup that works, so I stick with what I like. Sean did treat me to the Chanel Rêve d’Orient eyeshadow palette for Christmas, so I will add sparkly (non-natural) lids.

4. Tinted lip balm, forever. Here are a few of my favorites: rms Beauty Lip Shine in Sacred, Tata Harper Lip Treatment in Be Adored, ellovi lip butter (c/o), & fresh Sugar lip treatment in Petal.  I really want to try this Terry Baume de Rose in Fig Fiction. I should maybe tone down the lip balm addiction a little.


5. Spritz all this madness with a facial spray, like Caru Lavender & Chamomile Facial Toner, or Caudalie Beauty Elixir.


Don’t forget your hair, it needs moisture too! Keep the static fly-aways and split ends away with Bumble + Bumble Hairdresser’s Invisible Oil Conditioner, davines OI Absolute Beautifying Potion, and Phyto Subtil Elixir Intense Nutrition Shine Oil. My hair is really, really dry, and I do a lot of heat styling on it.

In Conclusion

Whew. That’s a whole lotta product. I don’t always have or use all these at the same time, and some I’m using via deluxe Sephora samples, but these are my tried and true recommendations. I’m still trying to stick to more “natural” skin care and makeup products – especially with so many of the chemicals of concern in conventional products being endocrine disruptors.

After writing this post, I said out loud “But I don’t FEEL this high maintenance” and then Sean laughed a lot. Ha ha, let’s look at your tie collection, bro.

Disclosure: This post contains some affiliate links. I may receive a commission on purchases made after following an affiliate link. If you add up the products in this post, you’ll know why I need a commission. I am not actually a doctor.

Before & After: Living Room Update (Almost!)


I really wanted to get the living room update done before we had Christmas here and we’re very, very close. Close enough for a reveal! The BEFORE photos are from when we first bought the house (Feb 2012), but the plastering, painting, and bookcase were done right after the sale went through.


Since the last before and after post, we realized that cats destroy all furniture. We bought a $20 vintage leather test sofa to see if they would trash it. They did. So we designed the sofa bench, bought a custom organic cotton futon for the bench, and ordered a custom cushion cover and bolsters. We also swapped the sheepskin on the mid century chair for velvet cushions, moved the wire chair and found, painted, and reupholstered a vintage rattan chair – staying away from upholstered chairs that the cats will destroy. I realize this sounds crazy. Theoretically, I like cats more than I like pretty wingback chairs. Maybe. Maaaaayyybe.

What else? We added: another shelf to the bookcase, a lot more pillows, the new rug, a new coffee table, side tables & lamps, swapped curtains for roman shades, repotted a few plants in nicer pots, and put in a new front door. We also moved the boys trunk of toys out and will let them fill one of the new bench drawers with toys.


There’s a few things left – for one, we can’t leave the tree in that corner forever. I have no idea what could go there, though, so it’ll be empty until I figure it out. We’re still waiting on this magazine rack, and the art above the sofa bench is temporary until something jumps out at me. The folding screen (purchased at an antique shop when I was 17, holy cow) is temporary until we build a giant fence outside in the spring. Neighbor issues! We also need to paint and frame the front door, please note paint color strip and blocking around the door. Ooops! We’re thinking either grey to match the cushions or green to match that little table under the mirror.


When we were deciding on the fabric to use for this chair, I asked my mom “What would Nana do?” – so we dug out old photos of my grandmother’s living room in New York. Green on white toile was my favorite of her decor – and I already had this roll of blue and white toile fabric.


Meet Moon! He’s nothing like Huey. I think he’s part Siamese because he has blue crossed eyes, super long legs, talks a lot, and opens cabinets. He’s the dopiest cat I’ve ever met, but I volunteered at the Humane Society here and couldn’t leave without bringing a new friend home.

The rug seems short for the room, but without going custom we couldn’t go any larger on the standard sizes without getting too close to the wood stove.

bench_detail coral greenchair2 coffeetable Sources:
Rug: thomaspaul
Coffee table: CB2
Chairs: vintage finds
Blue ikat pillow and vintage Swedish textile pillows: Alpine Home, Stowe, Vermont
White silk pillows: Eileen Fisher for Garnet Hill
Toile fabric on rattan chair: Waverly Idyllic Days in Lakeside
Upholstery on sofa bench: Rags & Riches, Burlington, Vermont
Sofa bench: My awesome dad and brother
Drawer pulls: House of Antique Hardware
Wall color: Benjamin Moore Steam
Roman shades: Restoration Hardware Baby & Child
Pendant lamp: Nelson Crisscross Saucer
Front door: Jeld Wen (yes, I wanted wood, but Vermont winters wanted EnergyStar more.)