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{edit: the universe clearly heard my sleuthing loud and clear – I just got this message:



Chad
1 year ago
I’m glad the trip ended up getting better! Such lovely photos, and you are just too damned adorable lady. xo!
verhext
1 year ago
chubbeh cheeks! thanks bebe. i was still kind of queasy and tired but at least i wasn’t thinking “i am going to die in this hotel room” like the first night! ai yi yi.
zincink
1 year ago
I saw your post about pizza but couldn’t think of one single place. I am biased because I always thought NJ pizza is the best. Sounds like you had a nice time. If you were to live here I would bet on Brooklyn, it seems to be where everyone our age is living. I only know of one person who lives in Manhattan and that is because it was a hand me down apartment from family. Fun photos
verhext
1 year ago
People in Brooklyn are toooooo young. It’s why I moved out of the Mission in SF – all the same kids. I’d never move to NYC though – I would if my family had been able to keep their houses! Then, maybe. Now? Too little space, too much money.
I still miss Lorenzos pizza from college!
Meg
1 year ago
People in Brooklyn are not too young. People in Williamsburg are too young. Where we lived in Brooklyn WE were too young. If we moved back, we will have finally started to grow into our hood.
verhext
1 year ago
Williamsburg makes me want to kill people, just like going to the Mission now. I’m an old lady.
& as tempting as it is to move to Fort Greene just to channel my grandmother’s ghosts, I know I’d do the same thing my parents did and run screaming to the woods.
mathyld ▲ under the pyramids ▲
1 year ago
You are so beautiful, Tamera ! To be honest, I’ve never been a huge fan of the bangs, but it looks perfect on you !
Also, I am so glad to read that you wandered in your gran’s neighbourhood ! Too bad that you didn’t find the building … I suppose it just means that you have to go back !
x x x
-m-
verhext
1 year ago
Weirdest, weirdest ghost thing just happened. Turns out I was staying less than 2 blocks away. My father’s cousins son just found me out of nowhere, RIGHT THIS MOMENT, on ancestry.com, to tell me that his mother was thinking about the building YESTERDAY!! WHEN I WAS LOOKING!!!! & she knew one cross street – the one I didn’t know. The bad news is that Pratt (an art college) razed it and it’s gone. But no WONDER I could feel her so strongly there.
mathyld ▲ under the pyramids ▲
1 year ago
Woooaah ! Now THIS is pretty intense !!!
(But what a disapointing discovery to realise that the place is now gone gone …)
x x x
-m-
Colleen
1 year ago
I haven’t been to NYC since a middle school choir trip, so it’s fun to hear about your escapades. Shopping the “4 B’s” sounds delightful. I’m glad you recovered quickly from the flu. It’s terrible when you get something like that on vacation and get stuck in your hotel room.
Valerie
1 year ago
Lovely pictures! Sounds like a lovely time, despite the illness.
Vanessa
1 year ago
Sounds like you have such a nice time in New York. I’ll be moving there in June and can’t wait to start my life there. Though I doubt it will be in the West Village. I do enjoy living above the poverty line, after all.
Becky
1 year ago
Wow, that sounds like an awesome time. I really need to make it out to New York again soon! Love the pictures and the thoughts about your grandmother rollerskating the same streets. Here in Boston I think the same thing about Ben Franklin and Sam Adams, but maybe walking instead of roller skating!
giovanna
1 year ago
Wow, that story is absolutely amazing!
verhext
1 year ago
I am still in shock! I kept saying to my husband “it’s SO WEIRD that he would find me TODAY!!!”
I uploaded a bunch of photos he didn’t have, too, so he’s excited!
Becca
1 year ago
This story makes my heart ache, in the best way possible. I’m so happy that your trip had so many redeeming moments, despite the awful sickness part. And I’m blown away by the incredible coincidence (or perhaps not) of you finding new family connections like this.
Karrey
1 year ago
Amazing on being contacted by long-lost cousins! I guess sometimes, when you send a message out to the Universe, it decides to answer you back.
I’ve been on Ancestry for a few years now, and I’ve found some astounding stuff about my family there, but never any devastatingly-close-yet-so-far relatives. Not yet, anyway!
verhext
1 year ago
I know! I called my dad and he of course knew who he was, but my dad’s cousin (this guys mom) is about 12 years older so they didn’t hang out much. But I scanned a great photo of his mom in a formal dress, and his grandfather holding a puppy and a chicken, and he was super excited. On the other side, can you imagine contacting a stranger and having them hand you your history!?
Shabby
1 year ago
These photos are incredible! You have a wonderful eye. I love your aesthetic so much.
Congratulations on making a connection! I so want to know about my ancestry.. My late grandfather hails from Italy but he totally excommunicated himself from his family at a young age, which is such a shame. I know absolutely nothing about my roots :/
Anna @ D16
1 year ago
Oh my! I just read the updated to the post, and WOW, what a story! That’s crazy-amazing.
It was so nice to meet you in person finally. Next time we’ll do more than walkwalkwalkwalk, and in sensible shoes. xo
p.s. I see you left out the highlight of your trip, the Macy’s shoe department! Or perhaps you’re just blocking it from memory…
verhext
1 year ago
I feel really bad that I wore such dumb shoes. I swear, they’re comfortable enough I thought I could do it. Next time, I will be more fun and less sick and limpy!
I actually DID block it from my mind. I think I actually started disassociating, jeez. This is why I would never ever ever do crazy sales like Filenes or Barneys Warehouse. Yuccckkkkkk.
Meg
1 year ago
1) I used to live in the West Village! Before it got as yuppie as it is now (seriously, it freaks me out and makes me laugh now).
2) I have pizza in walking distance of my house in SF that’s better than any pizza I had in a decade in NYC. So maybe you should come visit me!
verhext
1 year ago
What years did you live there? It’s crazy, from my childhood summers and holidays to college when I hung out in the LES a lot (93-95) to now – SO MUCH CHANGE. I can’t even think about how much the HUGE lofts my friends lived in in Manhattan in the early 90s are now. $$$$$$. I’d still move to the West Village if someone gave me a million trillion dollars, though!
What pizza place? None come close here for me, I like my sauce sweet and my crust thin! It’s in my blood.
Meg
1 year ago
Pizzetta 211. Come visit.
And I lived in the Village 99-01. Mid-2001, I had the brillant idea to move down right next to the world trade center.
verhext
1 year ago
Yikes.
I should go out there and eat pizza! I almost never head out there unless I’m beachward or taking someone to Toy Boat.
Marcy
1 year ago
This post makes me want to join Ancestry.com!
I only know my mother’s side of the family and there isn’t much in the way of interesting California history-they were German immigrants who settled first in Monterey and then Hayward. But my husband (who has also never met HIS father) has really interesting ancestors-one of them owned a gold mine up in Sonora and some of his family lived in Knight’s Landing. The haunted Snowball mansion there was built by one of his relatives-it’s privately owned now but apparently still haunted. I am dying to go there and look around somehow-it used to be a B&B which would have made things much easier. He’s also related to Black Bart aka Charles Bole. I have a diamond ring that belonged to his niece, Blanche Beatrice Bole and she was apparently quite a character-she danced with Isadora Duncan and was stranded in Oakland for several days following the 1904 earthquake. I have a great sepia photo of her in 30′s evening dress holding a violin.
verhext
1 year ago
I love all this familylore! I want to see it all drawn out, Dame Darcy comic style.
Lori
1 year ago
The story about the phone call is amazing. One thing I know for sure, we live in a mysterious world.
Kristina
1 year ago
Lovely pictures!
Uhh, and I am in love with the glasses in the last pictures. I have been looking for something similar for quite a while now, but I have not been lucky yet…
Viele Gruesse, hope you feel better, Kristina
Jaclyn
1 year ago
I love all of these photos, I’m so glad I found your blog. It’s wonderful. That pic of the truffles is great, I love their packaging.
Margaret
1 year ago
Ahhh! You met Anna and she got to meet you? *jealous*
Grey
1 year ago
You were “just around the corner” from me. Greenwich between Watts and Desbrosses one of the stops on the Ninth Avenue El http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Harvey_Cable_Car.jpg.
For brooklyn here are some bits that could work for your next visit:
The neighborhood of Ditmas Park http://ditmaspark.blogspot.com/
Floyd Bennett Field (140mph in a lotus)
Dead Horse Bay (the good old days were not that great for the horses in manhattan)
the south to Breezy Point (yeah Queens surrounds Brooklyn north, east AND south)
SF=46.7 sq mi
BK=70.61 sq mi